I listened to an eqafe interview on assessing ourselves
within our daily decisions, one they mentioned and it fits within the topic I
am currently writing about within communication, and it is who am I in relation
to the clothes I wear and how does it effect me with communication with others?
Clothes I have found are a huge contributing factor in the way I experience
myself each day and how I will approach others in going to communicate with them, I do notice that I am interested in the way the colors look on
me and if I see I look ok then I will experience myself as ok. If I see that
something doesn’t suit me, then I will go into an experience of judging myself
energetically as I see the feeling within me goes sour. This I have attached to
this over all perceived belief within myself that I am not worthy or in some way
missing something, and so when I see something I wear that doesn’t please my
eye right away, then I will go into this energetic experience of low,
validating my belief about myself that I am less then and not as good as those
who would look good in such clothing that I am not wearing well. So I am
setting myself up within my reality to be doomed so to speak as I am seeking
perfection in this instance within the clothes I pick out, but realizing that
not all the clothes I try on will suit me and fit properly as the clothes are made for all shapes and sizes. The clothes I wear
do not define me as a human being, it is simply just cloth that covers my body
for warmth and protection. This may seem quite non-relevant, but within the
experiences of myself within the way I feel or judge myself in certain specific
clothes is showing there is a problem as I am defining myself not by how I live
in each moment, but on what I look like and how I will be perceived.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
judge myself based on the way I feel in the clothes energetically as an
excitement and/or a depression because of a judgment I made in relation to the
picture I saw in the mirror.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
judge myself based on the picture I see in the mirror and so accept the energy
as who I am within these moments.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
question energy absolutely within me and never question it’s reality and who I am
within it and why I am doing this in the way I am as diminishing myself and/or
exalting myself about others.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
seek attention from others through positive remarks and compliments I may get
within the clothes I wear.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to then fear getting negative remarks from others and feeling the energetics of negative emotions.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to then fear getting negative remarks from others and feeling the energetics of negative emotions.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
define who I am by external people and within as energy reactions to the
external, I see and realize that this is disempowering self as I am only in a
state of reaction and seeking, rather then directing myself in focus and stability
in what is best for all and self.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
define myself and how others will treat me based on the clothes I wear.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
believe that I am defined and determined within my reality by the way I
experience myself in my clothes and so go into future projection scenarios on
how others will perceive me.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to go
into future projections about my clothes and what I am wearing based on how I
think others will perceive me and judge me in a negative or positive way based
on this.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
fear being judged in a negative way by others.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
determine myself based on the fears of not being liked and accepted and base my
decisions on these fears rather then what makes sense to be done in the moment practically.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
believe that I have to look a specific way to be accepted by others.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
judge others for the way in which they look and perceive them in specific ways
without first getting to know them and seeing who they are as a person.
When and as I see I am going into a point of fear and
judgment towards myself or others when I am determining what clothes to wear, I
stop and breath, and I realize that this will only compromise my effectiveness
in communicating with others and so my effectiveness within living in a way
that supports me and others because I am not here living within in reality, but
distracted by fears and worries based on how others see me.
I commit myself to assess my clothing based on practical
factors such as the activity I will be doing as well as the comfort level of
myself within it physical.
I commit myself to look within me self honestly and assess
who I am within the clothes I chose and I commit to ensure I make the decision
based on my own self direction and so I commit myself to stop judging myself
and others based on clothes and get to know who the being is and even why they
chose the clothes they did.
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