Is Self Pity Ever Relevant? - Day 388

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The Starting Point of My Day Will Be the Starting Point of My Way – Day 387

Self pity creates a point of compromise and abdication of responsibility in one's world based on the belief that self is a victim to one's reality, but where the real power lies is taking responsibility for yourself in your world and so giving yourself the point of power by understanding what is real and so changing it in an actual way as you live with and as it to be better for all. A point of relevance as it's not really a point one want to continue in without self responsibility and self direction, is a point of using it as a gift to see where one is falling in one's reality to emotions and thoughts of victimization, and using this experience of self pity as a cross-reference to see when one is allowing this in one's world. It's quite helpful to stop the automated nature of the mind as it exists in these energy addictions that we can exist in, so self pity can be a gift to support to move oneself to self awareness and then eventually to self change. Here I walk some self forgiveness and self commitments to correct this relationship to self pity with and as myself and so my world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed to believe that others are causing me harm in my world and I am a victim to this.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take out my anger and frustration against myself for not standing up within myself and treating others as  I would like to be treated, but instead continue to live in the abuse through the emotions I allow to direct me towards others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to wallow in my own self pity and become hopeless within myself and so within this fear blame others for what I see is out of my control.

I forgive myself that I have accepted the external reality of my self to effect me within a negative connotation as hopeless instead of realizing I can direct it the best I can and then allow it to be as I can only do my best.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to wallow within a belief that I am out of control within my reality and I feel like I am going to lose the stability that I have.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame another being of the way I am experiencing myself within a point of fear.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed fear to direct me into a self pity and blame.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed energy emotions as pity and anger to direct me instead of breathing and remaining physical as a support to find solutions.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in conflict with others rather then help and see where I can support them.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project my fear of loss onto others that I see are ‘weak’.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed to judge another as weak within a comparison of who I am in my physical environment.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself as strong.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed to create a polarity cycle of my reality at work where I try and win and others lose, creating both and accepting both to exist when I realize I can stop this polarity and support solutions that will support all in common sense.

When and as I see I go into a fear and self pity and so blame others in a projection to not face myself, I stop and breath, and realize that this will only compromise the way in which I will walk and direct my physical reality and create my reality in a beneficial way where I am stable and so create the point of stability the best I am able to with others.

I commit to let go of emotions of anger and self pity towards the world I live in.

I commit to stop blaming others.

I commit to move myself when I see I am going into comparison, and find a point where I can support the other as I would myself.

I commit to walk equal with my environment and move through desires to create a polarity of winning and losing.

Eqafe Interviews Recommend for Topic Support:

Self Pity: Understanding Self Pity - Atlanteans - Part 142
Self Pity: Starting to Let Go - Atlanteans - Part 143
Self Pity: Nature & Self Forgiveness - Atlanteans - Part 144
Self Pity: The Gift - Atlanteans - Part 145

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