My Relationship With Others- I am a Failure – Day 421

Art By: Matti Freeman

So here I just listened to a few resonant interviews that were held through the desteni productions channel back in 2010 and 2011, please click the links to listen they were very helpful to me, but anyways, I got some great insight through them into my own process and my own mind. One of the contributing factors to my experience of myself with others is this already accepted and allowed belief of myself that I am a failure and that no one is going to want to be around me or be connected to me because I don’t have much to offer.

Now in physical reality I am not really aligned with my mind as I do have things to offer and I do have people around me that see that I can contribute to things, but all the while I am allowing and accepting back chat that I am the opposite, that other’s are not wanting to be around me, and that I am of no worth to others. There is this underlying experience and backchat that is going on that everyone sees me as this despicable person and there is no reason to for me to even approach them because I will be rejected, so I am fighting this within myself. This is very self abusive to myself and so also contributes to my outflows of abuse towards others in different outlets in my daily life, I see, realize, and understand I am participating and becoming possessed in the mind within beliefs that are not based or grounded in reality as I am not basing myself or grounding myself in reality, but too much allowing thoughts and emotions to direct me in my day to day living.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe myself to be a failure before I even attempt to try or engage with people or in a event in physical reality.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe my mind when it says that I am not worthy to be with others and that others don’t want to be around me, and so create and manifest this in my reality by not being receptive or physically participating with others but secluding myself and closing the door of opportunity before it has even begun to open.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that within myself I am inherently flawed and existing within a point of having something inherently wrong with me based on judging different parts of myself within reality that I have created an absolute about and believe that who I am in this state is who I am always.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I have no worth in this world and no value within myself in who I am as a being because I judge myself based on the way I act and look and so see that I am not as good as others as I am still accepting and allowing comparison to direct me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to see myself inferior to others and so fear rejection from others as I have placed worth in others higher then my own self worth.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to put my own self worth into the external world and so get emotional and fear the external not accepting me, when i don't accept myself and reject myself. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself by my external reality and so disempower who I am within myself as a living being in my physical body and so in my physical world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to continue to exist within comparing my expression to others and so within this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to continue to create separation within my world in positive and negatives and create my world into a desire to win and so create the disappointment when it turns out to be the opposite.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to still exist within beliefs that I have no skills and I am not smart and so believe that I will be of no use to anyone that is wanting to be with me or get me involved in a project.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to live out the self victim state within myself where I see that I have too much on my plate and so believe that I am being put under too much pressure when in reality it is me holding onto these self pity of seeing myself as less then others and that I will fail at this anyway and disappoint everyone around me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I have to disappoint others and will do this because I am not able to get things done and do things in a way that is efficient because I believe myself to be not capable and not smart enough.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am not smart enough and not capable enough to move beyond my mind and my beliefs and work within physical reality, participating with reality, and moving myself as living in physical reality with others to walk what is here, and let go of the points that are not supporting me and move within what I am able to do in each breath.

When and as I see I am in a point of  belief and thinking of how I am a failure and judging myself within any way that is in polarity, I stop and breath, and look within myself to realize that I am able to live here and express myself, it only takes a breath and a movement, I realize I don’t have to continue to exist within this mind belief of less then, and can let it go and exist in a way that is by principles and self directed assuredness through building self trust and self integrity by living my words.

I commit myself to let go of and stop all back chat that is self defeating and also self praising.

I commit myself to move through these energy experiences of feeling low or desiring to get a high.

I commit myself to move myself in physical reality in these moments where I want to go into self defeat and push my fears to stop them.

I commit myself to walk this path until I am here and able to self honestly live my utmost potential and prove to myself that I am able to direct myself and have let go of the system thoughts that I am not capable and no one likes me.

I realize that it’s not about the other or the external reality, but who I am within myself, so I commit myself to build myself within my living word and stop my mind from directing me into self compromise as I direct myself as the mind into and as self correction in alignment with what is best for all.

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Starting to Investigate My Relationship with People – Day 420

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My relationship with people over the years has been shaky at best, I have always had a feeling of separation with others, I always felt that I had to get into a certain state within myself to be around people, like it took energy and effort to be with others, it was not easy and only enjoyable once I found my place. I always was looking for my place, I was always in fear of where to find it, how to get there, if I was going to be accepted, and would it last. So there was a lot of factors I was creating to even approach people and figure out how to continue to stay with them and how in fact was I able to do that. Because there was no manual on how to be friends with or exist with other humans, it was all kind of just there when I came of age and realized that being with other humans was not a walk in the park, it was going to take dedication and effort to make it work.

So the issue I was having over the years of not wanting to be with others was when I was bullied in school, and found out that not everyone likes me, not everyone is friendly, and this world isn’t so nice and great as I believed it was as a child being rather innocent to the harshness that is existent here. I started to develop fears about my body image and what I had and didn’t have compared to other kids. I started to realize that money was important and that buying the things to keep up with the other people I knew was needed to be able to continue to play in the social games of making it with groups. So once I started being bullied, I suppressed myself quite a lot, I would not do or say anything to instigate those that were calling me names as the emotional feelings within this were extreme. I can see and will be opening up the construct of being a bully and being bullied as a play out of the way in which we have designed our world and designed our relationships with each other based on the belief that this is what it takes to survive and this is how human nature is and this is how it’s always been. How existing within starting points such as these is in a way giving up on oneself and life to live in a way that is more abusive and existing within self interest alone that has been consequential as we see with the world and our relationships within it from children up into the world system., nothing really changes, just the dynamics and contexts do, we are still bullying each other and creating conflict with no real effort and dedication to find solutions.

So I was starting to develop my mind through what I valued within others based on things such as beauty, wealth, and personality and I myself started to based who I was on comparing and competing with others through these ideas of value I had created. This then created more and more separation with people in my world, being this way where I am basing who I am on very superficial ideas was not very fulfilling, I started to more and more dislike being around people and having to keep up these appearances and ideas of myself that in reality did not match. Over time my paranoia increased on how others thought, judged, and/or perceived me, I started to more and more alienate myself from meeting new people and pushing myself more and more in the belief that all people are fuck ups and I can not trust anyone.

I realized though overtime and through the desteni process that I engaged in some years ago that I have created the state in which I am existing within in this moment, I thought the thoughts, I created the beliefs, I judge myself and others, I abused and created competition with others, I am responsible for the way I have designed and created myself in this moment. I can not point fingers at any other person, place, or thing because in the end this is disempowering myself to ever create the change that I am capable of to become a human being that is trustworthy and self directed. Not living off of needs or wants, but through principles that support life and so will always support me by implementing and solidifying them through my living over time proven through time in the physical. Each one has to find the will and forgive themselves for who we have become and what we have done in the past, and again embrace each other and support each other as we have done for ourselves. Humbleness is key for such an endeavor of self purification and supporting life in this way.

So for the next blogs to come I want to investigate and understand more of who I am in communication and relationship with others, and how I can live the words humbleness and friendliness in a way that supports myself and others to become the best we can be.

More to come in my next blogs, thanks for reading.

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What Will Be the Key to Create A World of Peace? - Day 419

Imagine if we allowed for all to have support in this life, a new world basically in an instant where everybody has enough money and things to live from, and everyone is self sufficient and self directed treating everyone how self would want to be treated, with care and equal consideration. This world would be great, there would be peace in the lands, the fear would end, the killing and abuse would end, the traumatization and corruption would end, poverty, hunger, disease, slavery would end, our world would be a place we all would want to live in and rejoice for because our living would be that of true peace and freedom, a real joy.

Imagine this world….can you see it? Do you see people communicating with each other with ease and comfort, self expressing and being open and giving? Do you see the lush green of the grass and the tall old trees covering us from the daily sun? The endless variety of nature and animals walking alongside humans as equals? The children playing at ease in the fields with passion for each other and their expression? And adults supporting one another with humbleness and self assuredness? Can you hear the communication of the beings that exist on all levels of life the big to the small as all are here with each other as life in equal measure? Can you experience the equality of all life within the system’s we live and function from? This world we can dream up can indeed be created, but here is the key, we must physically move ourselves to create this world we see, we human beings have to physically create our 'dream' world step by step for it to become real.

This imagination is a blueprint for the actual world we can create. The problem we as humanity have been existing within is the fact that we are only imagining things, only existing within our minds, only seeking good experiences, only looking within a fear of survival, and not within the reality that exists that we have power and that power is within living aligned equal and one with all others in practical common sense.

We can not go from the state that this world is in now where we are in turmoil, at war, annihilating our planet, and abusing and hurting each other mentally and physically to a peaceful world without doing it ourselves, each one on this planet is responsible to walk the best they are able to within themselves. As has been obvious, there is no god or higher force going to save us on this planet, the ‘elite’ of this world or those in high powered positions and have access to all the resources have gotten to that position based on shrewdness and self interest, they are not going to bring peace to this world, they are not going to create a world that is best for all, so we are not able to rely on government or charities or religions to save us because throughout history as has been shown, our world has only gotten worse.

To expand our world into new directions that all are able to live within and enjoy has to also be expanded within ourselves, walking within ourselves to self change and taking the action to actually will it to be done. 

Walking with a group to create the change we see will be best. All are welcome in this group, there is no separation to who can be in this group, but we all are responsible to respect and honor all life equal and one to self and support oneself to live this so we can actually change the world for real. If we don’t change ourselves to live what is best for all, how can we expect our world to change in such a way or any other person for that matter if within ourselves we are not living this, the within is being reflected in the without.

The process for this self and world change is a process as we see with changing any part of our worlds such as stopping an addiction, it’s going to take a step by step dedication to walk this and change oneself without giving up in the difficult moments and there will be many. Though the rewards of this labor is a stable and harmonious self and eventually global community. To get here though, we have to figure out within ourselves how we work, what is driving us within our motivation in our behavior, what is working that supports our physical bodies and living and what doesn’t, and then we have to take the same steps in the outer, how does our world function, how does our relationships function in this world, how are our systems constructed and operate?

This process is not going to be quick or easy, the mcdonalds way of life has been used up, we have to face now the consequences of our lifestyles from the past and within this walk the current positions of ourselves to support a better future. But here a key alignment I realize has to be made within myself and so within humanity as it’s common sense, if we want peace and stability in our world, all must have access to this peace and stability, if even one being (man, animal, nature, all life) is not included, peace and stability will never be possible. To implement and live the principles of we are all one on this earth as the physical beings we all are, and we are all equal within this physical existence because we are all life within each one that exist, a entire new existence will open up, something we couldn’t have fathomed in years past. But this way of peace and transformation into a transparency of sorts and a unison of life is here to be walked, it is possible, and is in waiting by all life who is willing to align with such principles.

Living what is best for all is our solution, living in peace and stability is possible, allowing all a right to life on this planet is our duty, and respecting and honoring ourselves as one and equal as life is our salvation. All who here this and walk it will live eternally, it is not a special thing, it is the truth of life. Support proposal that support life, let’s walk a new world through living this through ourselves, and remember none are free until all are free. Thank you.

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Caring for Another as Myself - Walking Gentleness - Day 418

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Within walking this process of gentleness in the previous blog you can find here, I have spoken on a few dimensions of this word I would like to correct and align to what is best for all. The first dimension I looked at was the experience of myself within treating others as I would like to be treated, and so caring for others as I would like to be cared for. I am going to walk self forgiveness in this blog on this first dimension to align myself into the physical correction of caring for others as how I would like to be cared for in who I am here.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not treat and care for all the walks of life I meet equal to how I myself would like to be cared for and treated.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create preconceived ideas and opinions of others before I even meet them and so create a separation within the interactions and words i speak towards them based on following and participating with these thoughts as ideas and opinions, and eventually live these opinions and ideas out into my world where I do not consider the other equal to myself because of a biased I have created to always benefit my own self interest.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to form a belief within myself about others intended within myself in my hidden or secret layers of my mind to create a point of superiority over them as I exist within the desire to be seen more than others or be seen by others in a specific self benefiting way so I can feel good/positive within energetic responses within these moments of superiority I live out.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to follow my desire filled self interested thinking within the starting point of being liked or being accepted, and so compromise myself standing as an equal with all others no matter what is within my mind as desires and ideas as I realize these do not serve life as the outflow consequences of these actions of putting myself before others, and so I see and understand this creates a point of abuse to others and so eventually with myself as I live within the cycle of the mind as polarities of positive and negative experiences.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself and see myself as not equal to others based on my ideas and beliefs I have participated in and created of myself that I am not good enough or not as good as others within skills or actions, and so create a point of inferiority within myself not honoring the principle of treating myself as I would like to be treated in a way that is best for me and life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project my own anger and disappointment within myself when I don’t live this principle of caring for life equally as I want for myself and I see that I haven’t been living in a way that is of self care or self respect and so I am not in a stand to live and walk this with others although I pretend as if I am.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to compromise my self integrity of living within principles of what is best for life by continuing to exist within self abuse and so abusing others in my reality through my thoughts, and so words, and then living these words out that are in separation to what is best for all and so myself as well.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to continue to participate within my mind as judgments and emotions and feelings about myself and the external world not realizing, seeing, and understanding that this is my creation and I am showing to myself that I am not living the principle of treat others with care as how i would want for myself, and so my world is not then aligning to this care and equality as I am not living this within myself. I am the creator and so the creation of what it is my life is showing me, self abuse and so self compromise at this moment of my self creation process.

When and as I see I am going into a point of separating myself by judgment or belief, opinion, or idea, I stop and breath, and realize that these mind participations within physical reality is taking me out of physical reality and directing me into areas that I don’t have directive principle within because the mind is vast and has directive principle through energy and structural alignments within interdimensional dimensions of this physical existence.

When and as I see i am going into points where I am not treating others as how I would like to be treated or treating myself in a way that is not what is best, I stop and breath, and realize that I am in self abuse and this is only compromising and sabotaging my ability to create myself in what is best for all and so create this as my expression and my life.

I commit myself to let go of the mind dimensions of polarity when I see I am bringing these energetic points up within me.

I commit myself to use breath and walk the points of physical reality where I am able to ground myself and find a stable movement where I can move through the energetic pull to follow my mind patterns of thoughts, emotions/feelings, or imagination beliefs and use my physical body as a grounding point.

I commit myself to find practical physical based solutions that will support others as well as myself to do what is best for all.

I commit myself to let go of the reactions to others as I move through and let them go of getting my needs met, and so I commit myself to move to consider others before myself and find the common ground within a solution that will benefit all involved.

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What Does It Mean to Be and So Live the Word: Gentle - Day 417

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My partner and I have been looking at the dimensions of this word and how we are practically going to live this within ourselves as well as starting the process to apply it with each other. The first dimension I am looking at within the living of the word gentle is a form of taking care of myself and of another. What does taking care of another and myself mean in this context is that within the principle of treating others as how I would like to be treated and using this as a guideline to live this word in everyday living, I can see that I will embody the living of the word care because of my consideration within this principled lived out. If I care for another as I would myself then I am in the same way taking care of myself, I am caring for life in all it’s forms within this principle because caring for another as myself, I realize I will want the best for myself and so I will live the best for others then equally. So within myself, I see I have to align and so correct any points that are not aligned within this principle through writing self forgiveness and self corrective statements. Through this process of correcting myself, I realize that I will then take responsibility for my actions as well as the outflow consequences of my actions with others and be able to direct myself in a way that is caring and so walking the process to becoming and living gentleness.

The next dimension I am looking at within being gentle is where I see I have to embody a humility with myself as well as others in my world, the definition of humility being:

Humility - noun - a modest or low view of one's own importance; humbleness.

So through living out this word humility, I will be living within the principle of care and so gentleness as I allow myself to become without desire or driven within self interest as I ensure that the other is treated as an equal to myself. This through applying breath and stepping back, letting go of ego driven self interest and desires, which is living only for one’s self importance and pride. I must let go of that which is driven by my self interest and so my ego, which is driven by the mind to embody and so be able to in physical living, live gentleness and care with others. By releasing my ego through correction in writing and living the change, I can start to become self directed as my awareness will start to step forth. Expressing in a way that is real and done within a self-decision of walking the process of correction and then living what one has realized within the alignment of principles that is best for all, is a sure way to become the living embodiment of these words that will support others and oneself, and so support all life as I would like to live this word gentle for myself and others I meet.

Another dimension I see I have to look at within living this word gentle is who am I within myself in relation to being gentle? Am I a gentle person to myself in my thought, word, and deed? f I don’t become gentle with myself and take care of myself, how can I expect to do this for another? I commonsensical see that this is not possible, as the principle of life reads, “as within, so without”. I can see this as well as I become harden and stubborn within myself when I hold on to my views, my rights, my ideas, my opinions, my, my, my, and so not in any way live in a way of care and so gentleness. I see that within this act of becoming harden and stubborn within myself, I am actually hiding fears and so living in fear, not able to live in a way of gentleness or caring because I am being pre-occupied with fear in my mind reality absent from physical reality. So another alignment that is required is to continue to walk my self process within correcting all the fears that come up within me and so on the other side, all the desires as these two experiences within are balancing each other out. When I fear I try and compensate with desire, feeling good, getting a high only to return again to the fear as it never goes away as I am accepting it is real. So walking this process in aligning with principles of life and living words, such as the word gentleness will support what is best for all and so always again what is best for self.

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Realizing and Living My Utmost Potential - Day 416

"1. Realizing and living my utmost potential" - writing from The Desteni of Living - My Declaration of Principle

When I look at this commitment principle within myself, I see a decision that I have to make in each moment, meaning to become and live the utmost potential within a moment will take a physical movement within me, it will not come automatically. Realizing and living my utmost potential is something that I see happens over time and happens in a progression of moments, events, and/or living experiences. But the key factor within this is who I am and what I will do with the moments that are here. This principle is able to be embodied as myself in every breath I take if I so decide it, this is the fulfillment I would say of this principle, living and embodying the expression of self of fully doing the best one is able to do in each moment to the best of their ability.

Another factor comes up within me as I look at this and it’s the point of knowing when I have reached my utmost potential, and within this I would say that the serving of others within living in the best way I am able to in each moment that is here is serving myself and so all others equally in benefit. Fulfilling this within the action of doing the best I am able to in the moment, giving as I would like to receive is a factor to also embodied when fulfilling one’s utmost potential. I have found that when I give of myself to support and assist others and do the best I am able to then I am satisfied within myself, there is a point of stability and calmness within understanding that I gave it my all and I supported and assisted others in the venture I just undertook.

I have found in the moments when I am not living within my utmost potential, there is a point of uncomfortableness within me, like a stirring or a restlessness within me that I can see, realize, and understand that I have not fulfilled this principle within me and that I did not support others as I would for myself.  So within the living of this principle of living my utmost, I can flag point this uncomfortable experience within me to support myself to see that I am not walking in the direction of self support and so supporting others, but compromising myself.

There will always be a decision, a decision to direct myself within walking my utmost potential in each moment or not walking this and so giving in to self interest. Self interest where you are not supporting others as you would want for yourself and not doing your best within the actions you are living, including expanding and growing to new points within who you would ever think yourself to be. This is a process of living and investigating oneself because we have never really had a clear understanding of ourselves within who we really are, what we are really capable of, and really pushing our limits and boundaries in a principled and best for all life way. Though, I realize this principle (as well as the other's within this declaration) stands throughout and will always stand as a support for self to walk towards and so embody my utmost potential and giving as I would like to receive until it no longer is a process, and I am always living this here breath by breath as I walk.

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The Desteni of Living - My Declaration of Principle - Day 415

I hereby stand with these principles and commit myself to live them in my life through a process of self honesty, self introspection, and self forgiveness to create the path before me to walk these commitments as me as I live in each breath. I will in blogs to come expand on each commitment principle and give examples of how I have integrated and lived this into my own life.

1. Realising and living my utmost potential

2. Living by the principle of what is best for all – guiding me in thought, word and deed to always in all ways direct problems to the best possible outcome for all

3. Living by the principle of self honesty – to ensure I am pure in thought, word and deed: that my within and without is equal and one. Who I am within is who I am without and vice-versa

4. Self Purification through Writing, Self Forgiveness and Self Application – the action of realising I am responsible for my own thoughts, words and deeds, to forgive myself for transgressions and change myself to ensure I take responsibility for who, what and how I am and through this know that I can trust myself to always be honest with me and so others

5. Living the principle of Self Responsibility – realising only I am responsible for what I accept and allow inside of me, my relationships and my outside world and so with this responsibility: only I have the power and ability to change that which I see is compromising who I am, what I live and how this affects others

6. Realising that who I am in thought, word and deed affects not only myself – but others as well and so with Self Responsibility in thought, word and deed – I take responsibility for myself and so my relationships to be Self Aware in every moment and live in such a way that is best for me and so others as well

7. Living the Principle of Self Awareness – to be aware, to see, to recognize my own thoughts and Mind, to be self honest to the extent where I can take responsibility for when I see my thoughts / Mind is not what is best for me / others and commit to immediately take responsibility and change for myself and so for others

8. With taking responsibility for myself, becoming aware of myself – take responsibility and become aware of others in my life, to assist and support them as I am assisting and supporting myself – to give as you would like to receive and do the extra bit every day to see where I can contribute to other’s lives and so my own

9. Living the principle of self trust – as I commit myself to remain constant in my living of self honesty, self responsibility and self awareness, I stand as an unbending trust that I always in all ways know who I am no matter what I face and that in this I know, as proven in the constancy of my living that I will always honour and stand by what is best for all and so best for me

10. Making Love Visible – through me not accepting/allowing anything less than my utmost potential, I support those in my life to reach their utmost potential, to love them as I have shown love to myself by gifting to me my utmost potential, the best life/living experience and show others as I have shown myself what it means to LIVE

11. No one can save you, save yourself – the realisation that the tools and principles of Desteni is the guide, but I must walk the path myself. We are here to assist and support each other in this process from Consciousness to Awareness/LIFE and what it means to live – but the process itself, where you are alone with yourself in your own Mind: is walked alone

12. Not waiting for anything or anyone to take responsibility for me and this world – but that I realise I have created who and how I am in this moment, therefore I have the responsibility to change who and how I am and so the realisation that we as a collective created how and what this world is today and so it is the responsibility of the collective to change how and what this world is today

13. Honouring the life in each person, animal – everything from the great to the small of earth, that we expand our awareness and responsibility to creating the best possible life for everyone and everything and so ourselves

14. Relationships as Agreements: individuals coming together using agreements as a platform to one-on-one expand, grow and develop as individuals in life and living to support/assist each other unconditionally to reach their utmost potential where the agreement is a coming together of individuals understanding what it means to stand as equals and to stand as one

15. Sex as Self Expression – where sex is an united expression between individuals in honour, respect, consideration and regard of each other as equals, two physical bodies uniting in equality and oneness – a merging of two equals as one physically.

16. Realising that by the virtue of me being in this world – my responsibility does not only extend to my own Mind / my own Life, but to the minds and lives of everything and everyone of this earth and so my commitment is to extend this awareness to all of humanity to work together and live together to make this world heaven on earth for ourselves and the generations to come

17. I must in my thoughts, words and deeds – but most importantly in my living actions, become a living example for others in my world that is noticeable and visible when it comes to the potential of a person to change themselves and so change their world. So that more people can realise how we can change this world, by standing united in our self change within the principle of what is best for all to bring heaven to earth

18. I am the change I want to see in me and my world – to bring heaven to earth is to bring into being, into living the LIVING PROOF of a PRACTICAL HEAVEN that can be seen and heard in our actions and words. We are the Living Heaven that must come into creation in this living world.

19. Through purifying my thoughts, words and deeds – my inner becomes my outer, so I bring into creation me as heaven into earth, realising it is not enough to ‘see the change / be the change’ – for change to become REAL it must be a constant, consistent living of me through the words I speak and the actions I live visible and noticeable to all in every moment of breath

20. Realising that my physical body is my temple – my physical body is the living flesh through which and in which I will bring into being and create / manifest heaven on earth as me in my thoughts, words and deeds and so I honour, respect and regard – nurture and support my physical body as I would nurture and support me as equals: my body is me

21. We are the change in ourselves and this world we have been waiting for: and so I commit to dedicate myself and my life for each one as all to realise this, as nothing will change if we don’t change in all that we are, within and without

22. The realisation that for me to be able to change myself in thought, word and deed to the most effective living being that I can be and become – I first have to ‘know thyself’ and so commit myself to investigate, introspect and understand how I became who I am today, to prepare the road before me into self creation of a responsible, aware, self honest and trustworthy person for myself and so for all

23. The realisation that for me to be able to contribute to change in this world – I have to get to ‘know thyself’ as this world and so commit myself to research, investigate and introspect the inner and outer workings of this world and align the systems of today to present and give the best possible life for all on Earth