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Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Business Fears: Fear of Approaching People - Day 455

Previous Business Fear Blogs I have done in this Series:
Business Fears – Fear of Not Making the Sale – Day 444
Business Fears- Fear of Failure – Day 443
Business Fears: Fear of Not Showing Up - Day 446

Continuing on with the fears that come up as I enter the business world and within starting a business as a saleswomen. This fear of approaching people is one that has a lot of emotional energy involved within it due to the fact that this fear has been with me for a long time. What is driving this fear is the unknown factor that is existent within the very action of having to approach people and introduce them to what I am offering, this is a self initiative that I have to embody and self direct if I indeed want to sell them. This emotional experience I realize is based on over time allowing this fear and the thoughts that go with this fear to accumulate and not actually move myself enough to counter act the fear by approaching people and talk to them on a consistent basis.

I realize however that through action this fear will be transcended because I already see that I am able to go up and speak to strangers as anyone is by simply walking the physical steps and moving my mouth and speaking. The capabilities are there, I just have to move through this emotional energy as fear that I am allowing to hold me back and stay in a state of stagnation.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that within myself I am existing as someone who is not good enough to approach other people and show them what I have to offer.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become stifled with thoughts of how good others look and act when they approach others and how I am not able to do it as good.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself compared to others in a moment when I see, realize, and understood that those other people did not just become this great speaker/seller in this moment, they too walked a process, went through trial and errors, and persevered to be where they are.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to delude myself in believing that I am and should just know how to speak to people and show them what I have to offer in an instant and automatically, not seeing, realizing, and understanding that it’ll take effort, consistency, and perseverance to see my actions reap the benefits of what I have put in.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire my business to be a success without having to work for it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become deluded within desires in alternate realities in my mind of just becoming a success that are not reality based because I am not walking the steps to create this and so instead creatinig disillusionment and missed opportunities.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to allow the fear of approaching strangers direct me into a stagnation.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear strangers rejecting me and so me having to face rejection.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be stifled by the fear of rejection instead of realizing it is part of business and life and so it’s something to be embraced and learned from.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to miss opportunities here because of fear.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear moving myself because of fear itself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe the existence of fear is real and that it can make me not move.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to wallow in fear and so stagnation instead of making actions in the physical to accumulate my business and do what needs to be done to be successful.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge myself for the falls and not realize, see, and understand it’s not what happens to me but who I am within what is happening.

When and as I see I am going into a point of fearing approaching strangers, I breath and stop, and realize that this fear is irrational as it’s not actually real, I see, realize, and understand I am able to move forward, I am able to get myself in front of others, and I am able to walk the process to move my business forward by walking the actions necessary to become more skilled and more experienced within selling what my business has to offer.

I commit myself to breath through the fear of approaching people and move myself to do so when this fear occurs using scripts to ease the approach and find ways to get others interested in what I have to say and offer them by being creative and going for it without fear.

I commit myself to stop the fear and focus on the bigger goals I have to why I am walking this business and for what purpose in helping others become more independent and empowered within themselves.

I commit myself to find all ways that I am able to make a success of myself as a business women and a human being on this planet in ways that will be best for all life.

I commit myself to do what ever is necessary to ensure I am successful and moving myself everyday in physical reality with physical actions to ensure I give myself the path to walk the process of making a success of my business.

I commit myself to create success within myself as my business and life through perseverance and dedication to what is best for all through all that I do.

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Business Fears – Fear of Not Making the Sale – Day 444

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So here I am looking at a fear of not making a sale due to the fact that I have yet to make a sale in my business venture that I am walking. This fear is more due to a future projection because when I look at this fear it’s based on the fact that I am uncertain of what making a sale will look like or be like. I have yet to do a presentation for people, so I am new and fresh at becoming a sales women. I within myself want to go into judgment and strife about what I haven’t done yet and what others are doing that I am not, and go into the fear of never making the sale.

Though this is, if I look at it realistically and within reason, not supportive and not measuring the facts of what is here, that I am new to this business and will have to walk the steps to accumulate the creation of selling my product through testing points and adjusting myself as I progress. So I have to walk the talk so to speak and this is where I find lies the true nature of this fear, fearing that I will not walk the steps necessary to ensure I give my business and myself every potential opportunity I am able to to in fact make the sale and become successful.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear not making a sale within the business that I am walking.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create a future projection of making a sale or not within walking the business plan that I have committed myself to walk and execute.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear the potential of facing new people and new faces and being rejected within them in harsh or deliberate ways.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear facing rejection when I am putting myself out in front of others to make a decision of acceptance or rejection. I realize, see, and understand that within this decision rejection is an option that will likely come up often and that I am not defined by this decision, but by who I am within the action each and every moment I walk my business regardless of what I face or who I face.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be defined by rejection as if this defines who I am as a being and see, realize, and understand that it is a fact of the business and life based on the practical consideration of other beings and if it is necessary or not to have this product in their life (though it is lol necessary for all to have this product in their lives).

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear rejection instead of seeing, realizing, and understanding that it holds a gift and opportunity to grow within understanding myself in the product I am selling and understanding from other’s perspective information that otherwise I would not have been privy to about myself within selling the product to them.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to see rejection within not making a sale as a negative point within myself such as I failed instead of seeing, realizing, and understanding it is a key to understanding how to become successful.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become emotionally driven based on rejection instead of seeing and understanding and realizing that it really is as a point of reference to where the product or myself require consideration within an adjustment or correction within what is being lived at that time and how I am selling myself as the product.

When and as I see I am going into a point of fearing rejection and fearing not making a sale, I stop and breath, and realize that I am going into emotion instead of breathing and grounding myself into reality in the facts that there is something within myself that is needing to be looked at and considered more close for adjustment or correction if this point of rejection is coming up in this moment. I realize rejection is not personal nor defining who I am and so I commit myself to use it as a gift to understand myself better and so become a better saleswomen.

I commit myself to let go of the attachment of failure as negative emotional energy to being rejected through breathing and standing by myself through moving forward.

I commit myself to find the gift within the rejection by understanding what needs to be consider to make myself better.

I commit myself to walk the steps to improve and correct myself within what I see and other’s see through rejection that is not working so to speak.

I commit myself to walk the talk and push myself to expand myself each and every time rejection occurs.

I commit myself to not take rejection personal and see it as a gift to reach success and part of the process to in fact become a success as who I am within what I do.

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Saturday, November 23, 2013

Correcting Embarrassing Actions and Living - Part 1 - Day 356

Recently I was at a fair where I had to interact with people I had never met before and be assertive within myself to get them to hear and pay attention to what I had to say, so it’s a point of selling myself to sell a product. I was in a situation where I was ‘on the spot’ so to speak with an older gentleman, and he asked me to give him an example of what I was showing him. The example that first popped in my mind, I said, but it did not want to come out properly, so I ended up stuttering my words. He then looked at me and said ok, and kind of brushed me aside and walked away. Within myself, man I was feeling like I had screwed that up and was quite embarrassed I had flubbed up like I did.

I did not take into consideration however, that this was the second time I was doing this type of approach and obviously I was not going to be perfect right off the bat, I have to gain experience to specify and remediate my application and so mistakes are to be expected. Though, within myself I took this personal and felt embarrassed and judged myself for this screw up, instead of accepting the mistake I made and changing myself within it, I suppressed my the emotions and kept saying within myself I am fine, I am ok, let me just move on. But all the while having this event effect me not only mentally but on a physical level with feeling shakened up a bit and flushed. So here I will walk as many dimensions as I am able to in relation to this incident in the next blogs to come to support others as well as myself in correcting this experience of embarrassment I am sure we all can relate to. This first dimension I will walk will be on not seeing reality for what it is, a process of mistakes, adjustments, and living the correction to become perfected in any given task or skill one takes on. Thanks for walking with.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to believe that when i make a mistake or reality does not line up into a perfect outcome or a normal outcome and something happens out of the ordinary, i then feel that i am at a lose and something has changed within me for the worse.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to be defined by my environment and what happens within it instead of being in the moment and seeing reality for what it is and so support myself in reality by living with and as the environment and doing what is best in common sense and in this case it would be to correct myself when I make a mistake and move on.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to miss myself in reality for real because i am in an emotion of embarrassment when my environment doesn’t turn out how i expected it to and believe that i am at a lose in some way.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to be defined by emotions such as embarrassment within moments where my reality doesn’t match up to how i expected and i am doing something within a wrong calculation and so feel like i have done something bad.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to for instance in the moment where i screwed up my word within speaking to the old guy about tt that i was inferior because i made a mistake and he did not.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself for making a mistake or mishap within what i am doing where my reality didn’t go the way my idea of reality was suppose to go and so see me as the problem.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself in my reality not accept and allow myself to make mistakes and mess up in front of others as this is inevitable within living in this physical existence.

I forgive myself that i have not accepted and allowed myself to see, realize, and understand that making mistakes and mishaps in a way of self honest application, that this is the only way to learn and so correct myself as i see that the mistakes are showing where i still need work.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to feel inferior to the guy based on believing that because i messed up he was going to think that i am stupid and a joke.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to believe that the other guy thought i was stupid and a joke because i messed up in the word i was trying to say when in reality i don’t know what he is thinking and so should focus on myself and who i am in the moment as that is what is real, me within myself and who i am as a living being in each moment and what i do to correct that which i see is not aligned to what is best for all.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to not take responsibility for the fact that i am the one judging myself in my own mind as stupid and a joke for messing up a word and so condemning myself to feel embarrassment as i have accepted this to be who i am, an embarrassment, when in reality i realized i didn’t know the word properly and so it’s showing that i need more practice, which i did and corrected after the incident occurred.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to see myself as an embarrassment because i have judged my actions in the moment of messing up my word and so caring what the other man thought of me, and so i forgive myself that i have continued to accept and allow myself to define who i am by others and my own mind as projections of what others think of me, rather than stopping, breathing, slowing down and living through the physical as who i am in my words and actions in common sense in each moment as i walk and live and correct that which needs realignment to what is best.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the thoughts that i have of me being an embarrassment and a joke, rather than breathing, correcting myself in the moment, and so walking the practical steps to learn the word in what it takes and so stop the act of self compromise.

When and as i see that i go into a point of judging myself for making a mistake in fear of others thoughts of me, i stop and breath, and realize this is the physical process of learning new things in reality and this process is showing me where i need to look into more to learn and that i am not defined by the external reality, but i define me within who i am in each moment of breath within my living.

I commit myself to stop judging myself when i make a mistake or mishap in reality.

I commit myself to stop defining myself by the actions in the past and so breath here and express myself in each moment.

I commit myself to walk the process of correction and also making mistakes so i can learn and change myself to perfect myself through this learning process of making mistakes.

I commit myself to stand with others in self stability and so walk with rather than in fear of them, I have the ability to move myself in common sense, and so I commit to walk this way of common sense living rather than fear based living.