Secure - Redefinition Word Process - Day 503

Secure -

 
Definition - feeling safe, stable, and free from fear or anxiety.

Word play - See cure

So the way i have been living secure is where i am existing within a point of needing this, not ever feeling like i am secure and so not feeling safe or free in my environments. I have tainted my security within myself and my world based on following others in my reality, not seeing, realizing, and understanding that i am not leading myself but following the experience within me based on stimuli i have been triggered by through energy based on thoughts.
Solution: the solution that i am seeing is first stop following others and the experiences within me, and lead myself based on living principles. Living based on principles, living based on breath by breath living, living based on provisions or solutions for each scenario i go into to what and who i will be in those moments. 

So secure within myself is based on see the solution before hand as i am the leader of myself preparing the way before me so i can stand in these moments and not be swayed by energy but be secure within the steadfast of my resolve within the life principles i am living

Word list - Living Words Secure
secure
safe
free
sound
protect
whole
understood
self leader
assured
solutions
confident
immune
riskless
unharmed
certain
decided
sure
stable
stand
life
best for all
principled
living
complete
here
breath
commitment
discipline

Redefined Secure - is to see and so self lead self to the solution/cure in the moment through preparing beforehand the potential outflows and corrections needed to become secure in the understanding of what the situation calls for as it presents itself.

Flag-point for this - if i am feeling insecure - then i realize a process has to be walked in writing/self forgive/self correction - living solutions to be able to become secure in that scenario and stand as solutions as the moment comes.

 
Scenarios to Live this New Definition of Secure -
-When i am in the mirror judging any part of my appearance, as the solution i walk self forgiveness and self corrective statements until i no longer judge my appearance in the mirror and i am stable, how ever long this takes, i stand and walk.

-if i am in front of another and my mind starts to chatter thoughts that 'i am being judged' 'they don't like me' 'i am being seen as weak' 'i am weak' - i breath through these thoughts and live the solution that the other is defining and creating themselves, and in this moment i must take responsibility for myself in stopping these thoughts from directing me and living the solution which is living solutions that are best for all - the one solution is - all life is equal and one as this physical existence - no being is more or less - each being is unique in an individual expression within the physical body that exist here as and a part where each on e is a part of the physical planet.

-Each is capable and able to live to there highest potential and all within this physical existence has this potential within them. My responsibility in this moment is to live these principles of equality and oneness of the physical and live the word self responsibility to stop my thoughts through breath awareness and have the solution in place to see the life that is here in a 'new' way - a way of equality and oneness and so live the best that is able to be lived in these scenarios for myself and for all others that i can support.

-Care (creative action regarding expression) also has to be walked in the moments i am changing in my process from insecure to secure by living solutions through caring for myself as i fall and stand up again in the process of change that is being walk, and caring for my physical body with efficient food/sleep/breath awareness to remain stable in my reality and balanced within my day to day application.

--care for myself when i am not feeling ok, is to realize that i am ok, i am alive, i am breathing, i have support around me, i have all i need to live, and i have the opportunity to walk to my highest potential, and so within this realization, i am in a simplistic outlook of life where life becomes simple, it's not about the thoughts or the thinking, but about how i am in my self in a moment - this is all that really matters the self here in the breath and how I will live/create myself. Through this provision of making life simple, best for all, and walking the tools of self responsibility and self change, i am moving myself into a point of becoming secure as i understand where i stand and i am leading myself to stand within how i will be in moments of insecurity becoming the solution for myself and the environment that i am in within the principle of what is best for all.

-Memories - memories that come up that move me from here - my directive principle - i note them down and walk the self forgiveness and self correction to purify the memory and release the energy charge within it within a day or two of the event.

-conflict resolution - to be continued - i have walked releasing the energy real time through breath, and understanding the solution within the outflow that is playing out by taking responsibility for myself and the situation and using my resources to create a solution that is best for all. Learning and expanding as I confront conflict and practicing the responding in my ability to create solutions that will create stability within the environment once again.

--If the person is violent of causing harm to others or myself, leave the area and call for professional support like police.

-Aid to someone in need - put myself in there shoes and see how they are seeing things, through communication and asking questions to find the common ground between all involved to be able to agree on a way forward that will be best for all.

-walking with animals - enjoy the moment with an animal treating them as how i would like to be treated and supporting them in the best way i am able to so there survival is certain and the equality of life is respected.

-Walking with children - change any reactions immediately not allowing time to pass and waiting to ensue as the children are looking to me as a solution and example of how to live. They will be the future of our world, so teaching myself in all areas that are here to learn what is best by walking what makes sense in this physical reality through a correction process of self honesty and self responsibility. This to ensure all children as all adults live in dignity and respect through securing their life in the highest potential we can possible create here each and every breath.

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Day 126- Letting Go of the Past

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to bring my past as how I experienced myself in the past here within this moment in pictures as memories of me being a ‘fuck up’ and thus defining myself by this starting point whenever I allow these pictures as memories to direct me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to when interacting with another being, accept the picture of me as less then, where in I will remember how I feel about myself based on how I was treated in the past, so thus holding onto memories of being mistreated in the past and thus within this accepting this as who I am here, a person who is going to get mistreated, and thus live into this by seeing myself as someone who gets abused as I allow others to abuse me.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to allow others to direct how i am and thus allow abuse onto me, as i did not stand up for myself, showing i am abusing myself by not walking what is best for self as what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself within moving about my day, accept thoughts that I am less then others and thus accept the feeling of unworthiness to direct me based on believing this of myself, by defining myself by these emotions and feelings of unworthiness and thus the depression state, living into this depression state physically, by holding myself back and allow my past as the fuck up character defining me in my living in each moment.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself by the fuck up character based on holding onto memories of me living and judging myself as a fuck up, such as when I skied into a picnic bench, where in, I was made fun of from that point on, based on this action, and thus blaming myself for this ‘accident’ where in it was out of my control, and thus just an occurrence that happened due to circumstances I had no control over at that time.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hold on to this memory of me skiing into a picnic bench and thus from this memory live into the inferior character as I see within the group I was with, they used this as a point of weakness in me, and thus I defined myself based on this weakness they called out, which I realize is not a weakness as we are not defined by weak/strong, but is simply a point that occurred, and thus learn from this point to correct it in the future, and stop the judgment of self and others based on happenings that are not 'normal' or 'regular'. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take it personally that I was made fun of for skiing into the picnic bench and thus define myself by the words of others and the incident that occurred in the past, and re-live it over and over when I find that another is trying to exploit a weakness or my perception as such, and thus go into inferiority based on remembering this memory of being called as weak.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself by the past and thus by a memory of me being made fun of by other kids, as I realize this was based on the kids mis-education on how to treat others human beings, and the mind within that separate us from each other due to our own actions or inactions to walk a change that supports life, where in, I must walk the change to support life as I realize that I have this opportunity to do this process now of correcting this point to stop the mind from directing me and thus teach others to stop as well, so thus I walk the change that is here within this process, to stop directing myself by thoughts and memories of the mind and live here for the betterment of all life by equalizing myself with the physical existence and changing what physical matters to support everyone living.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself by the words of others, and thus define myself through who I am in regards to the words of others, instead of walking me as living words, which I realize is the correction that I must walk.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself by being yelled at by older beings, and thus go into inferiority around those who are older then me based on defining myself by age superiority, where in I immediately go into inferiority due to the belief that those who are older are more wise and know better, I realize that this not self supportive as I am separating myself from others, and thus going into a point of inferiority automatically based on this belief about elders being more capable/knowledgable/wise.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself by being criticized and thus defined myself by the criticism of another believing it to be true about me, and thus instead of using common sense reasoning in self honesty, I will believe the other and thus change myself to suit the others words, seeing myself not as capable as the other and that the other is usually correct.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to doubt myself and my capabilities due to seeing myself not as capable as those who are older in age then me, and thus go into inferiority when I find that I am criticized by another and thus allow that criticism to define me and change myself to accommodate another’s words instead of trusting myself and living my words that support me in self honesty and common sense assessments.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself as bad and inferior if I am criticized by someone who is older, and thus believe that I am wrong.

I fogive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to allow beliefs that I am inferior to elders and not as capable to direct me into suppression.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to change myself for others and not trust myself within my living and my self application in who I am in self honesty.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to suppress my expression based on my holding of the past in who i believe myself to be in my mind, i realize i must walk the change to live here in breath, and walk the physical in what matters and can be changed to support life in all as i would for myself, live here in the physical as breath and stop the mind from  directing me as thoughts, pictures, memories, and beliefs, it's not worth it and it's self abusive.

Self Corrective Statements to Follow.

letting go, stop the past, live here, breath, stable living, criticism, mistreated, bulled, memories, process, elders, common sense assessment, suppression, equal life, desteni, 2012, eqafe, stop and change, journey to life